Posts Tagged ‘employability’

Pictures and Piercings

Sunday, April 11th, 2010

Something like 20% of Americans now have a tattoo of one kind or another, and the number of piercings beyond earlobes must be even higher. In one sense, you have to admire the artistry involved on the part of the creator of the pictures, and the pain threshold of those who get them. Ditto, the piercings for the latter.

Recently, I participated in a mock interview with a prospective employee. She was about 17 years old and had several piercings that traced the outline of one ear. Towards the end of the interview, I asked why she had them. She told me that she didn’t think that had anything to do with her ability to do the job. Fair enough. The question was not allowed because it was unrelated to merit.

Title VII of the Civil Rights Act 1964 as amended protects those in the United States from employment discrimination for reasons of race, color, religion, sex or national origin. It says nothing about how many tattoos you have, where they’re located or how big they are. Neither does it address the issue of piercings, whether they’re in your ear, belly button, or somewhere else.

The US Military, however, does prohibit individuals from becoming officers if they have tattoos that damage the image of how they expect such people to appear. And there’s the rub. Whether such “body art” contributes to or detracts from the ability to do a job doesn’t matter. It’s the image that it portrays about the company to the world in general and to its customers.

To some extent, piercings can be hidden. Tattoos, however, are much more difficult unless you wear turtlenecks and long sleeves the year ’round. So, before you embark on your next such adventure with a needle, think hard about the impact it could have on your employability.

You won’t regret it.

Bruce Hoag, PhD, CPsychol

If You Scratch My Back . . .

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

Ever notice how often Christmas brings out the worst in people? Let’s be honest. There are a number of businesses out there that only contact you for three reasons during the year: One is to sell you something, another is to send you an invoice or give you a receipt, and the last one is to send you a Christmas card or email telling you to have a Happy Whatever. So, during this time of year, you can expect to receive about one-third of their correspondence, which probably explains at least part of the reason why it’s so fancy: you’ve paid for it with a different third.

Personally, I get rather annoyed when companies who have only sold me something or have managed to take money off me the rest of the year in some other way (think utilities) then have the nerve to send me a Christmas card. I feel like saying, “No thanks, chum. Just take it off my bill.” I’m sure that none of you behave like this, so let’s just shake our collective heads and heave a big sigh.

There will be critics out there who say I’m just being cynical, but that’s not the way I see it. Yes, it’s good to be kind to people, but there’s no reason to confine it to one week on either side of Christmas, nor is it necessary to wait for the other person to blink first. Showing consideration for our suppliers and our customers (including the ones in our organizations) is a gift we can give them all year long; after all, it’s not just for Christmas.